Month: June 2012

Matthew Newman gives RealBdotcom a dose of “Love”


If you ever want to fall in love with a man and his words, I suggest you fall for entrepreneur, Matthew Newman  (@ThisIsWhyIWrite). He happens to be one of my favorite new aged writers and also friend. His words never cease to amaze me. He is such a great, positive, role model, paving his way as a powerful business figure in the world. (IJS!!!!)


“I see many, many young couples experiencing conflict within their relationship(s). And you know what they contribute the conflict to? Love! “Well, I guess it’s Love.” or “If I didn’t Love him, I wouldn’t have accepted him back.” or “Baby, y…es I cheated. But, I Love you. I don’t Love her. It was just one night!”

What does LOVE have to do with it? I have so many JUST, humble opinions about relationships, etc., but I can honestly say that it isn’t Love that separates. Love doesn’t create conflict. Selfishness separates and creates conflict. Love is NOT to be blamed for fleshly living…

I REALLY “LOVE” the I Corinthians 13 explanation of Love…”–Matthew Newman

Matthew Newman: @ThisIsWhyIWrite

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#Floetry “As Love LIES”… RealBdotcom

Wishin upon all these stars…
Hopeful to be heartless
Repeat scenes of how innocent girls get sucked in..
Too deep

Converted to a women who significantly becomes insignificant
As the wind blows…
Time continues to go…
Dont be lost in a moment where u can’t tell…

The truth
Pleasantly covered with alibi after alibi…
How can this be… lies????
Lies covered with love as it’s disguise…

The devil needs a muse and likes to use the confused minds…
Ah, so as the stories unfold…
People you know become people you knew before
Game is then sold…..

Say bye bye
There goes the girl u used to know…
Now a woman transformed to a woman scorned

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Realbdotcom: It’s not you, It’s me. #EXCUSE

A line used to help you feel less guilty when you feel responsible for wanting to break up, leaving some sort of room for an opening to come back to the relationship. (for some)

…Skip the BS line and get right to explaining specifically the issues that make YOU incompatible in the relationship.  Look Deeper”  according to PsychAlive, who knows it may blossom the very relationship you’re running from.

“Relationships  are  perfect vehicles for living out  feelings we’ve carried with us since childhood. As much as we may love our partners, we are conditioned to project our negative self-image and unresolved pain onto them.  Identifying the seeds our current feelings sprout from, we are able to demystify the things that trouble us most in our relationships and approach our partners from a rational, adult perspective. [The popular Seinfield show used the It’s not you, it’s me excuse, “Nobody tells me it’s them not me, if it’s anybody it’s me.”  By taking these steps to develop ourselves, we can [expand your relationships. ]”–



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#GETYOLIFE (Tamar Braxton inspired blog below about minding ur got damn business and stayin the eff out the next yard.)

sometimes even IF he/she is “feeding, fucking, and financing”  that DOES NOT constitute for u to take ill treatment tho. #realtalk

Shouts out to my big cuzzo Sheana for exposing the 3 F’s


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Caught up in Ya Ex?? [Let your Present get you PAST it!!!]

Is it cool to still have pictures of your ex in your phone ( face pics, nasty pics, etc) when you’re in a new relationship????

#Realbdotcom says: What for? Memories aren’t enough? Especially from the person who is now in the rearview saying hello to the past. smh…if you let go of the past, you can embrace your future! Don’t hold on to what was, losing sight of what could be. I mean afterall, if it’s over then hasn’t it run it’s course?



Of course my #SEXINTHECITYSANANTONIO ladies gave their opinions as well…

#1: “d*mn, i just deleted some outta mines…but, NO it not cool to have pics of any exes.”

#2:”That is a definite NO NO. there’s something wrong there if they’re still there while in a new relationship.”

#3:” No only a dumb ass leaves them in the phone always back them up on the computer or flash drive lol.”

a males response:

“do you think its cool to talk to yo ex n*gga? fuck outta here with the bullsh*t.”

All the more reason for my original statement…In a new relationship, let the past be the past and start your new beginning.

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