AT first I was suprised by that beautiful little picture in my update from several people subscribed to Lauren Londons Facebook page. I’m like Kudos though…15 hours later, I get an email and inbox to go check a friends Facebook update because Trey Songz and Lauren London are beefing publicly (EYEBROW RAISE..) We just found out y’all were a couple though…If you want to peep the mess here are a few clips below via screenshot. Or you can Go subscribe to Lauren London’s Page or Trey Songz (Tremaine Neverson). It appeared that the beef started about 14 hours ago and has since died down, but the screen shots are below!!! O_o Publicity stunt or is this really real? They are human after all just like we  are… but rumor has it, this may have been in regards to YMCMB’s own Shanell SNL (Side eye) hmmm well…Say it aint So…but, I can say right now, I bet the neighbors DON’T know his name right now, from Lauren London’s suburb!!!



@DiamondATL aka Ms. 32 FLAVAZ

Brittany Nicole Carpentero…y’all know her… Ms. ATLien cornbread fed Puerto Rican and Black mixture thoroughbred…She is one of my most favorite mainstream and mixtape femcees to date. I just love her!!!Ms. Diamond aka Ms. 32 Flavaz (now Google that!)

Creating her legacy by joining the group Crime Mob in 2004. The group’s takeover launched with “Knuck If You Buck,” Which went platinum instantaneously. She moved forward with her own endeavors November 2007. Diamond left her group and 2010, showed us what #HOTLANTA chicks are made of!!! “My Chick Bad,” which was a Ludacris single, along with Trina and Eve reminded us she is no rookie to the game.

Debuting her very own single “Lotta Money” the summer of 2010, heightened the coming out of #TEAMPRETTY leader(@Twitter hashtag she populated); Keeping the fans enticed, she  released her single “Buy It All” on BET’s 106 & Park late 2011, and was also nominated for Best Female Hip Hop Artist at the BET Awards of 2011. What an amazing year for her!!!

Rumors of her being on the new season of Love and Hip hop…#SMASHED!!!!…DON’T believe the hype!!! She will NOT be doing so. “I’m just not trying to surround myself around drama,” Diamond told “I just have worked so hard to get away from that. I’d rather put my life into music, rather then just be on a reality show. I’m just not one to gamble with my life and career like that.”

The most controversial thing I can say that surfaced was former breakup fire that was fueled with ATL’s crowned Prince Lil’ Scrappy (and his Ma Dukes). A brief candid sour patch candy face moment (not for her however). As of now she has been linked with rapper beau Soulja Boy. Talk about #UPGRADED swag. I’m not sure how true that is, but any man with Jay-Z attributes better “Beyonce” his woman’s life!!!

What’s new in 2012??? According to @DiamondATL Twitter news, As anticipation builds for her debut album,she told, “I don’t want it to drop no later than third quarter [of 2012]…I’m just gearing up with a lot of different producers. I’m going down to Miami, to start work with The Runners. I have two records with Jim Jonsin. So I’m just transitioning over to that big sound, leaving that old sound behind.”

And ya girl gon’ go HOLLYWOOD!!! She’s doing a movie as well. Diamond has been my breath of new inspiration for wearing all the hats of a real woman holding it down in Hip Hop: keeping her business personal (and out of unnecessary scandal), chasing goals through obstacles and successfully working towards them to execute and pursue. #ATL #SALUTE

“A lot of other artists reached out to me because of my mixtape, and they want to do features on it,”

I can see why, here are some of her most recent works.

2009: “Superbad” (featuring Cee-Lo Green)
2010: “Lotta Money”
2011: “Hit That Hoe” (featuring Waka Flocka)
2011: “Buy It All”
2012: “Loose Screws”

2007: Bitch Musik
2008: Bitch Musik Vol. 2: Ms. Boojhetto
2009: P.M.S. (Pardon My Swag)
2010: Bitch Musik: Part Three
2010: Cocaine Waitress
2011: Bitch Musik 4: Poor Little Rich Gurl

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“Officially Miss Guided” aka….

OMG Girlz! Say hello to the newest “girls on the block”. American teenage girl group formed by Tameka “Tiny” Harris and Kiesha Miles in 2009. This Atlanta based girl group is on the rise,with stylish fashion sense and positive “independent girl” powered anthems that are comparable to TLC, with their matrixed 3-some formulation and scintillating fashion style and amazing chemistry, WEEEERKKK!.  

The group consists of Members Zonnique Pullins, Bahja Rodriguez, Breaunna Womack. Past members included Reginae Carter (Grammy Award winning Lil’ Wayne’s daughter and one of the original members) & Lourdres Rodriguez (her separation from the group was said to be age related.) So far no dramatics in regards to separation for these lil’ women in media press for their  reconstruction.

The OMG Girlz signed a recording deal with Pretty Hustle/Grand Hustle Records with the single release “Gucci this, Gucci that”, have been featured on the “Scream” tour with Mindless Behavior, BET reality show Tiny & Toya, 106 & Park, so forth and so on.

Their iconicly viewed parents must be proud. Even with Lil Miss Reginae Carter(who is no longer a part of the OMG Girlz). How can you not want to attempt to live up to your parents stardom and fame? “Star” has TI and both Tiny to look up to in regards to Hip Hop and Girl group do’s and don’t’s. I can see this group being a new age success, becoming iconic to our now teen ladies coming up.

 Based out of Atlanta (Hip Hop Music mecca), equally talented, along with an expanding fan base from tweens up to adults, there isn’t any competition right now between the ages of 13-17. So it appears that they are ahead. There is alot of talented young artists, but (frowny face….) No girl groups come to mind.

The lyrics for “Gucci this, Gucci that goes as such, “Gucci this, Gucci that, Gucci everything… give me this, give me that, give me everything,” and “What kind of chick you know rocks Gucci from head to toe?”

Despite all their hardworks and efforts to gain as much positive feedback as possible, there are a few “naysayers”when it comes to these pleasantly beautiful young ladies

Well  I peeped the video and I loved it. They were dressed APPROPRIATELY for starters…These ladies represent themselves well. Some people’s controversy, in my opinion are simply bank related…(OH!!! you hatin’ on little girls who make more than you do off of a song than you will in a lifetime???…#BEMAD)

How can they be viewed as “materialistic”?? I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but these kids aren’t hurting for anything. They can even BUY publicity if it was that important to them. So let’s keep it positive people. Remember they’re working for their “Gucci this, Gucci that” the same way you sit up at your job working for yours! Instead of hatin… Get you some “Gucci this, Gucci that” and don’t be a hater all ya life! Haha

#ATL #iSalute

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He/She Smashed the Homies…

Urban dictionary “correct definition” is:
When a person in a relationship (open or exclusive) finds out their partner has slept (had sex) with their friend/associate, prior to the relationship’s existence.

You meet someone, y’all vibe, connect and expand on another level, just to find out somebody had a piece of the pie you want to fully consume?! It happens so much, and I did remember briefly “For the Love of Ray J”, the beginning of this “Smash the Homie” pandemonium. He had two instances where two women slept with one of his close friends. .Reality is, there is too much time in the world to build towards getting over who your lover smashed. Why be worried about what happened before you “clocked” your time in with your boo. That’s all it is…a PRIOR technicality, or “foul” in the game of life.It doesn’t mean it’s completely over, it is a small hiccup that requirea you be a grown individual. “IT” happens, get over yourself. If you’re not the Virgin Mary herself, you’re bound to sleep with someone or be with someone through an extension of someone you know, knew or heard of! Real T.

I’m not saying to partake in a big orgy fest and expect it and accept it, but it’s probably common that it’s occurred at least once in a lifetime. Getting to know people and dating are not on my tasks of easy to do’s, but it can be done if there is, men probably handle this better than women. Majority  of women  tend not to judge you on your past. We trust in our ability to enhance a man through a relationship, or “Upgrade U”. That basically means you don’t need anybody or anything further (she accepted your “smash the homie” and is holding you down, what more do you need?). Most men  more than likely will test women until they get to a point where they can trust her, especially if she was the homie smasher.

I don’t believe that who you slept with before who you fell in love with will determine if your relationship will last.You have no control over who you meet and sleep with, and if anybody is at fault, it would be coincidence. I don’t like the idea of conforming to society for their idea of happiness.  Live your life… and if you can’t, check out my previous post  it gives you insight on how to worry about you.


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Communication is Key, Love is the Door (Open up)

“Had we made the official marriage commitment, we wouldn’t still be together. The reason the relationship works is that we get to define it on our terms. It would be very different if we were in a ‘traditional’ relationship where I was expected to be a wife and every now and then cook a meal!”-Oprah Winfrey on Stedman

Sometimes I get confused by the newfound era “open” relationships that are spiraling as time continues. The traditional word relationship has no value in today’s society. “My Girl Gotta
Girlfriend” and “Boyfriend #2” are examples of just how meaningless a title is.

I have been in pretty much every position that a woman can play at this point in my life with a man (with the exception of a ring wearing wife.) I can agree that the need for the title is on a decline. I personally feel as if titles are to show off…I’m not an entertainer! Personal life should stay personal. As long as you and your companion have a thorough understanding of what is going on between the two, then that’s all that matters.

First impressions are lasting impressions. If I meet a guy, and I tell him that I’m not interested in pursuing anything relationship wise, but end up having a casual relationship, how can I get upset when he thinks that we are just that? Ms. Cleo, is fake, no psychic mind reading. #Communication is key. Fact of the matter is, a relationship, whether it is a marriage, casual friendship, open relationship, or just the beginner phase of “talking”… it all needs
COMMUNICATION! This will be a deciding factor of what’s next. Will you
ever truly know someone? I’ve always believed that people will show
you the “representative” of who they want you to see.

 I heard this somewhere which I thought was interesting. You can love and be loved, but you have to accept that some people are just made for moments and not lifetimes. Maybe you didn’t know “How to Love”, or maybe you didn’t know that you could be of inspiration in someone
else’s life for example.  Maybe the relationship you’re pushing for isn’t equal to the person you are matching that title or expectation up to.(Which brings me back to COMMUNICATION…it’s the key to making sure you don’t look like an idiot assuming)


My favorite now, day in age celebrity couple who now publicly acknowledge their relationship (which is still private and completely at their discretion what they choose to have the media view…&& I LOVE IT!!! #BOSS) states that  “We decide everything,” she told the magazine. “My word is my word. What Jay and I have is real. It’s not about interviews or getting the right photo op. It’s real.”

Sometimes titles do create a bit of a possession or territorial field. You’re now required to check in, call, text, NOT have your cake and eat it too…etc. Things some people have an issue giving up. But if you do, you’re fully relying on the faith of Love, which means you trust someone not to hurt you. It’s a give/give up situation. You “give” up single life habits for love and “give up” the thought of hurt for the love of trust.


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Live Life in Moderation

Keri Hilson – Breaking Point

NOTHING  should ever distract u from being the best that you can in life. Making money, having money, or keeping it afloat as you make it to the next paycheck are essentially keys of balancing life and remaining equally leveled. (relationships, friends, habits, etc should not get in the way of keeping finances available and easily attainable)…This is America, no bill gets paid off of promises, or love…

It seems like happiness is an addiction. Too much of anything can be bad for you, they say everything needs moderation and dosages.

You can sleep TOO much, eat TOO much, think TOO much, love TOO much… (you get the idea)…being drunken off of whatever your addiction of choice is sometimes can impair your judgement.

 Happiness in full force is great, but it too needs moderation.

If you find yourself doing things in excess to keep that momentum and euphoria going…Channel yourself to exercise all of the other emotions and actions of the world before you allow yourself to completely be an idiot to your selfishness.(..if the world’s name was Burger King, then surely everything will be your way, and your way accordingly.)

Think of it like this, if we were allowed to feel completely how we wanted to with no rammifications other than our happiness in this world, you might as well tell me that you’re GOD….HE’s the only one who has that capability.

In the words of my dear friend in one of our “Sex in the City-San Antonio” moments:

“Rule #1 Never lose money chasing men/women,

Rule #2 Dont forget rule #1!”—@ShaniSweetz

(sometimes love is happiness…getting lost in someone affects your true desire to get ahead because you’re so focused on “we” instead of “me”. Funny how things can change with the thought of “emotion”)


I feel like I have a pretty general idea or consensus of topics to talk about, but at some point as the reader, I would like to know, what is it that you would like to have me blog about?

What questions do you have that we can explore? 

Please feel free to comment the blog and I will get with you to conjure up more blogs that have more insight.



If you fail to plan, you plan to fail. – Winston Churchill

I find it very easy to do the wrong things with no thought, question or concern and yet the right things seems like the hardest part of life to some.

Time is the key to life. I was once told that you are basically living everyday to die. This sounded all kinds of freakish, but when you put it into perspective, I get it! From the time you were born, you’re ready to die. Every step in life is gearing you towards just that. Time is the essence of life, and it makes your world go round. Think about how much time you do or don’t have according to how you spend your days….

I used to probably be one of the smartest procrastinators I know. (contravening to the statement, it is possible to be both) I used to pride about being able to succeed at everything I attempted simply because if it appeared to show some sort of success, then in my mind, I’ve conquered defeat. No matter how much I love being the person who doesn’t study to get “good” results, I’ve encountered that smarter people who apply skills  get “great” results. (at least in this case)

…anyone can be good, but a PROFESSIONAL is going to sharpen skills in life to be better than just average.

I had to take my own advice. I purchased calendars, planners, and anything leadership or organization oriented to keep me under wraps with trying to enhance my entrepreneurial mindset.(Which has worked surprisingly well thusfar.) Perhaps if I had taken TIME,  the outcome of success might have proven to be different.

Time also correlates with money. This is something we need to survive (I don’t care what anybody says, in this day in age it’s the one powerful thing that separates “haves” and “have nots” somehow in our society.) When you PLAN to do things with your TIME, you will see the difference in how things come together. Work diligently, your paycheck will reflect that.

Overall, the key word in all of this is PLAN. Plan to be the success you desire to be in life.

“Always plan ahead. It wasn’t raining when Noah built the ark.” Richard C. Cushing