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Caught up in Ya Ex?? [Let your Present get you PAST it!!!]

Is it cool to still have pictures of your ex in your phone ( face pics, nasty pics, etc) when you’re in a new relationship????

#Realbdotcom says: What for? Memories aren’t enough? Especially from the person who is now in the rearview saying hello to the past. smh…if you let go of the past, you can embrace your future! Don’t hold on to what was, losing sight of what could be. I mean afterall, if it’s over then hasn’t it run it’s course?

 

 

Of course my #SEXINTHECITYSANANTONIO ladies gave their opinions as well…

#1: “d*mn, i just deleted some outta mines…but, NO it not cool to have pics of any exes.”

#2:”That is a definite NO NO. there’s something wrong there if they’re still there while in a new relationship.”

#3:” No only a dumb ass leaves them in the phone always back them up on the computer or flash drive lol.”

a males response:

“do you think its cool to talk to yo ex n*gga? fuck outta here with the bullsh*t.”

All the more reason for my original statement…In a new relationship, let the past be the past and start your new beginning.

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Screwston To San Antonio Hustlin…

Hustlers I SEE YA!!!!

Beware…If you are looking to help a hustle and give a hand out…make sure you are giving away your hard earned dollars for a real reason…

I was working at the Future concert, talking to local artists and there was a guy from Houston, gladly handed me his nicely wrapped cd case, cover, and contact information for press in BREAD…

Afterwards he tried to basically get a donation, and at this point…my response”honey im working…tryna make a dollar outta 15 cents…so I ain’t got sh*t to give but a hard time, but i’ll listen to your cd and give it to my manager as well to review.”

I see him at the after party at Broadway Bar and he’s still holla’n at chicks, doin him and still hustlin his damn cd’s for what he says is “gas funds”…now the funny thing is a few people gave up some guap in between Backstage Live and Broadway Bar…

I get home the next day…and i’m talking to my manager Lux  Cash, we find out that there is NO CD, I REPEAT, NO CD!!! in all of that elaborate wrapped up paper. I would love to reveal his name…but all press is good press and BREAD aint makin u rich $$$$$$$$$$

But I bet you know this BLOG is about you, don’t you?!?

Never knock a hustle, but don’t get hustled!

Be Real Everyday And Deliver!

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A REAL B MOMENT: LOVIN THE CREW? 80/20 Rule?Who Cares?? JUST CHOOSE!

I posted a little tidbit on the Trey Songz, Lauren London beef that arose on social networks today. I chose “lovin the crew” not only because it’s the last Drake song a friend played in her car as we proceeded to work, but it symbolizes how a guy/ girl WILL utilize the skill of “Having their cake” and “Eating it too” if you don’t smush the shit in their face.

 

I had a friend, who took the time out of her day to work on a relationship restore after a hard days work with her “man”. She’s the 80 of course! However, there are  20’s floating around…She shouldn’t be working towards restoring something that she never wrecked. Not only is her effort more than what’s given…but I guess the words “LOVE” and “your so understanding” and “I appreciate you” are the pacifiers for #doormatting.

My key rule to all of my friends is, your business  ain’t my business and my business ain’t yo business…but when it comes down to listening, I had to give my opinion and feedback on what’s real…If you are a man or a woman holding on to past 20’s while you have an “alleged” exclusive relationship with an 80..SLAP YA SELF! Even if it’s vice versa…Really? You have to have more than one person? Big Ego Pimpin!!!!

In my opinion (for my friend), it’s nasty…if you wanna live like a KING produce the LIFE to a QUEEN so she won’t be worried about the other “issues”. That’s what men who had many wives did, took care of home…Today’s day in age it’s like you’re settling for bare minimum just to say your with someone. The idiot below(Kobe Bryant)…I cannot take away from his career, but I can say he’s a “loving the crew” get caught type. Everytime he gets caught cheating however, he realizes it’s cheaper to keep her. O_o

And for those “havers AND eaters” at the same damn time, Don’t you get tired of getting “love from the crew”… Some guy was telling me all men love hoes, they love women, but they love hoes too….Sad thing is a REAL WOMAN will be EVERYTHING a man needs and more (if he acts right)…so what’s the next excuse?….Stay lovin the crew if thas how u live, but damn move around from the real pollute fake hoes with that dumb shit!

 

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@DiamondATL aka Ms. 32 FLAVAZ

Brittany Nicole Carpentero…y’all know her… Ms. ATLien cornbread fed Puerto Rican and Black mixture thoroughbred…She is one of my most favorite mainstream and mixtape femcees to date. I just love her!!!Ms. Diamond aka Ms. 32 Flavaz (now Google that!)

Creating her legacy by joining the group Crime Mob in 2004. The group’s takeover launched with “Knuck If You Buck,” Which went platinum instantaneously. She moved forward with her own endeavors November 2007. Diamond left her group and 2010, showed us what #HOTLANTA chicks are made of!!! “My Chick Bad,” which was a Ludacris single, along with Trina and Eve reminded us she is no rookie to the game.

Debuting her very own single “Lotta Money” the summer of 2010, heightened the coming out of #TEAMPRETTY leader(@Twitter hashtag she populated); Keeping the fans enticed, she  released her single “Buy It All” on BET’s 106 & Park late 2011, and was also nominated for Best Female Hip Hop Artist at the BET Awards of 2011. What an amazing year for her!!!

Rumors of her being on the new season of Love and Hip hop…#SMASHED!!!!…DON’T believe the hype!!! She will NOT be doing so. “I’m just not trying to surround myself around drama,” Diamond told AllHipHop.com. “I just have worked so hard to get away from that. I’d rather put my life into music, rather then just be on a reality show. I’m just not one to gamble with my life and career like that.”

The most controversial thing I can say that surfaced was former breakup fire that was fueled with ATL’s crowned Prince Lil’ Scrappy (and his Ma Dukes). A brief candid sour patch candy face moment (not for her however). As of now she has been linked with rapper beau Soulja Boy. Talk about #UPGRADED swag. I’m not sure how true that is, but any man with Jay-Z attributes better “Beyonce” his woman’s life!!!

What’s new in 2012??? According to @DiamondATL Twitter news, As anticipation builds for her debut album,she told Boombox.com, “I don’t want it to drop no later than third quarter [of 2012]…I’m just gearing up with a lot of different producers. I’m going down to Miami, to start work with The Runners. I have two records with Jim Jonsin. So I’m just transitioning over to that big sound, leaving that old sound behind.”

And ya girl gon’ go HOLLYWOOD!!! She’s doing a movie as well. Diamond has been my breath of new inspiration for wearing all the hats of a real woman holding it down in Hip Hop: keeping her business personal (and out of unnecessary scandal), chasing goals through obstacles and successfully working towards them to execute and pursue. #ATL #SALUTE

“A lot of other artists reached out to me because of my mixtape, and they want to do features on it,”

I can see why, here are some of her most recent works.

2009: “Superbad” (featuring Cee-Lo Green)
2010: “Lotta Money”
2011: “Hit That Hoe” (featuring Waka Flocka)
2011: “Buy It All”
2012: “Loose Screws”

Mixtapes
2007: Bitch Musik
2008: Bitch Musik Vol. 2: Ms. Boojhetto
2009: P.M.S. (Pardon My Swag)
2010: Bitch Musik: Part Three
2010: Cocaine Waitress
2011: Bitch Musik 4: Poor Little Rich Gurl

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He/She Smashed the Homies…

Urban dictionary “correct definition” is:
When a person in a relationship (open or exclusive) finds out their partner has slept (had sex) with their friend/associate, prior to the relationship’s existence.

You meet someone, y’all vibe, connect and expand on another level, just to find out somebody had a piece of the pie you want to fully consume?! It happens so much, and I did remember briefly “For the Love of Ray J”, the beginning of this “Smash the Homie” pandemonium. He had two instances where two women slept with one of his close friends. .Reality is, there is too much time in the world to build towards getting over who your lover smashed. Why be worried about what happened before you “clocked” your time in with your boo. That’s all it is…a PRIOR technicality, or “foul” in the game of life.It doesn’t mean it’s completely over, it is a small hiccup that requirea you be a grown individual. “IT” happens, get over yourself. If you’re not the Virgin Mary herself, you’re bound to sleep with someone or be with someone through an extension of someone you know, knew or heard of! Real T.

I’m not saying to partake in a big orgy fest and expect it and accept it, but it’s probably common that it’s occurred at least once in a lifetime. Getting to know people and dating are not on my tasks of easy to do’s, but it can be done if there is, men probably handle this better than women. Majority  of women  tend not to judge you on your past. We trust in our ability to enhance a man through a relationship, or “Upgrade U”. That basically means you don’t need anybody or anything further (she accepted your “smash the homie” and is holding you down, what more do you need?). Most men  more than likely will test women until they get to a point where they can trust her, especially if she was the homie smasher.

I don’t believe that who you slept with before who you fell in love with will determine if your relationship will last.You have no control over who you meet and sleep with, and if anybody is at fault, it would be coincidence. I don’t like the idea of conforming to society for their idea of happiness.  Live your life… and if you can’t, check out my previous post  it gives you insight on how to worry about you.

“GET YO LIFE BOO, GET YO LIFE” https://realbdotcom.wordpress.com/2012/05/03/get-yo-life-boo-get-yo-life/

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Communication is Key, Love is the Door (Open up)

“Had we made the official marriage commitment, we wouldn’t still be together. The reason the relationship works is that we get to define it on our terms. It would be very different if we were in a ‘traditional’ relationship where I was expected to be a wife and every now and then cook a meal!”-Oprah Winfrey on Stedman

Sometimes I get confused by the newfound era “open” relationships that are spiraling as time continues. The traditional word relationship has no value in today’s society. “My Girl Gotta
Girlfriend” and “Boyfriend #2” are examples of just how meaningless a title is.

I have been in pretty much every position that a woman can play at this point in my life with a man (with the exception of a ring wearing wife.) I can agree that the need for the title is on a decline. I personally feel as if titles are to show off…I’m not an entertainer! Personal life should stay personal. As long as you and your companion have a thorough understanding of what is going on between the two, then that’s all that matters.

First impressions are lasting impressions. If I meet a guy, and I tell him that I’m not interested in pursuing anything relationship wise, but end up having a casual relationship, how can I get upset when he thinks that we are just that? Ms. Cleo, is fake, no psychic mind reading. #Communication is key. Fact of the matter is, a relationship, whether it is a marriage, casual friendship, open relationship, or just the beginner phase of “talking”… it all needs
COMMUNICATION! This will be a deciding factor of what’s next. Will you
ever truly know someone? I’ve always believed that people will show
you the “representative” of who they want you to see.


 I heard this somewhere which I thought was interesting. You can love and be loved, but you have to accept that some people are just made for moments and not lifetimes. Maybe you didn’t know “How to Love”, or maybe you didn’t know that you could be of inspiration in someone
else’s life for example.  Maybe the relationship you’re pushing for isn’t equal to the person you are matching that title or expectation up to.(Which brings me back to COMMUNICATION…it’s the key to making sure you don’t look like an idiot assuming)

 

My favorite now, day in age celebrity couple who now publicly acknowledge their relationship (which is still private and completely at their discretion what they choose to have the media view…&& I LOVE IT!!! #BOSS) states that  “We decide everything,” she told the magazine. “My word is my word. What Jay and I have is real. It’s not about interviews or getting the right photo op. It’s real.”

Sometimes titles do create a bit of a possession or territorial field. You’re now required to check in, call, text, NOT have your cake and eat it too…etc. Things some people have an issue giving up. But if you do, you’re fully relying on the faith of Love, which means you trust someone not to hurt you. It’s a give/give up situation. You “give” up single life habits for love and “give up” the thought of hurt for the love of trust.

 

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Seek & U Shall Find (“Snoopy”)

Getting in my Mojo for the day, and I #Google the interview from Love & Hip Hop’s Chrissy Lampkin squashing infidelity rumors about rapper beau Jim Jones. http://www.realitytea.com/tag/chrissy-lampkin/   I truly respect her standpoint of being a woman who is well kept, and trusting her man to keep her house a happy home leaving all the TRASH outside of the door.

Playing “Snoop Doggy Dog” looking through texts and social network seems like it’s a growing epidemic for some partners.I assume your intuition played a part. It’s like a battle between your heart and its emotions VS. your mind (voice of logic and reason). I have to admit though, finding what you DON’T want should only prompt you to figure out what you DESERVE. I can be a #REALB enough to admit I’ve done it! Suspicions felt, justified me snooping, but eh…Once I found what I didn’t want, I bet I didn’t have to do it again.

I asked one of my respected male friends about the topic. Of course that’s a no go, according to him! It’s like taking a piece of a man’s manhood and by the facial expressions expressed after I posed the question, he stated  that maybe previous relationship pattern history and trust issues would be a reason for justifying the act of snooping. Suspicions should be shot down by asking for the truth and receiving the truth. If entertaining dishonesty, realize that you’re still being lied to; which follows through with pursuit of the snoop effect—(now you’re looking alll crazy!)

Confrontation should occur if you have taken the liberty to snoop. When I’ve played my role of “Snoop Doggy Dog” I had to basically decide how I wanted to deal with it. State the issue at hand so there is no confusion(this is what I know, this is what I saw, this is what I want to know). I have had the whole “insecure” word thrown out afterwards, but reality is that insecurity would be based off of infidelity. (it doesn’t have to be physical, it can be emotional as well). If it turned to a denial, I left. #KNOWYOURWORTH

If it’s worth repairing, by all means do it…if it’s not KEEP IT MOVIN.

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